4) There's simply so much more for him to mess up. Things neither I, nor my parents, would have ever thought he'd touch, he touches. He loves going up and down the stairs and running all over the downstairs. I'm glad he has more room to burn off some of his energy.
In Will news, he is working hard! He has reached some new highs professionally and things are starting to fall into place. I know I've said this before on here, but he really loves what he does. And I get the added benefit of feeling smarter about all things financial. One of the perks of this job is that we get to take a little overnighter at the end of August. Of course, I'll be about 37 weeks pregnant by then, so I hope Juliana doesn't come early and spoil my day at the spa!
This is his headshot he had taken for work. Thanks to Eric and Janet for your help!
As for me, I'm now 30 weeks pregnant. I had an appointment last week where I found out that 1) I don't have gestational diabetes and 2) My iron is low. Both of which came as absolutely no surprise. When I was pregnant with Everett the nurse called me, concerned about how low my iron count was. "I can't believe you can even get out of bed in the morning, " was her comment. As a remedy, they had me add two slow-release iron pills to my daily routine of one prenatal pill. For a normal person, I'm sure that would've made their iron count increase, but not me. I seriously wonder if I'm iron immune or something ridiculous. So, here I am, one pregnancy and almost two years later, back on the same "iron building" routine. I'll let you know if it's more successful the second time around.
To those of you who have seen me pregnant, one thing is clear: I'm not a tiny pregnant woman. Tiny is not a word to describe me period, least of all while pregnant. And so it should come as no surprise to me that words like "huge", "pop", and "enormous" have been used to describe my current condition. I understand people think they're being cute/funny, but folks, I still have 10 weeks to go. And no, telling me, "You know, I was always huge with my babies too", is not a compliment, nor does it make me feel one iota better. I don't think I'll ever understand other people's propensity to remark about weight and size to pregnant women. At a time when hormones are raging and sensitivity is at an all-time high, comments about weight and "how many do you have in there?" and "you're never going to make it to September" somehow seem slightly inappropriate. Anyone else agree?Me, in all my 30-week hugeness. Yes, I know I'm huge and no I really haven't gained that much weight (18 pounds). Keep in mind Everett was over 9 pounds and 21 inches long. My theory is he really stretched out the living space in there and that Juliana is reaping all the spatial benefits. My other theory is Juliana's going to be one big gal!
Also on the topic of pregnancy (wow, I'm really on a roll today), my skin does some wild and crazy things when I'm pregnant. No, I do not get the "pregnant glow". Mine is more of what you could call the "pregnant facial explosion". I get the worst case of acne while pregnant. It really stinks and according to Will, it's "not that bad". But of course, it seems worse to me, since I have to look at myself in the mirror. Taking Heidi's advice, I tried the no-name brand of Pro-Active.I got it at Target and have used it for about three or four months now. While it helped initally, it dried out my face in certain places and I still had acne problems. So this past weekend, I picked up something new. Neutrogena's Advance Solutions Complete Acne Therapy System. I'll keep you posted on how it's working for me. Has anyone else tried it?

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yeah! an update. just this morning i was wondering how you guys were doing! thanks for all the news!
WOW! I loved your post!! There was so much new stuff to talk about. And I love you mentioning Juliana's name beacuse the sound of it was so matural and fits in with the rest of the family. I love it!
I'm jelous you are living in a house. That would be so nice to be able to stretch out a bit. Our 600 sq ft max apartment gets dirty (okay, really dirty) really fast. piles and piles of crap everywhere b/c there is no where to put it.
Everett is adorable as usual. You can see personality through those pictures. He must be in heaven with all that space and stairs!
Congrats to Will on his financial job. It sounds like a really good fit - and gotta love the job perks when they put you up in nice places. holy cow!!
I really like your short haircut - I'm pretty sure my next cut will be at least shoulder length. And I'm sorry people are boneheads and make bonehead comments. I don't understand either how people can be so insensitive. So I've got a story for you...
Lets just say our ward hasn't been the friendliest in the almost year and a half we've been there. I recently ventured out to my first non-church related activity with lots of women from the ward - it was a baby shower for a girl I visit teach - so I thought I needed to be there in support of her. So anyways, I felt extremely uncomfortable the whole time b/c out of like 30-40 woman that were there, only 2-3 actually make eye contact with me and/or smile. So I go to the kitchen and the former bishops wife who is extremely materialistic and selfish if you ask me - just from what i've seen, and never once has ever said hi to me. We were walking right toward each other and it was inevidable she would finally say her first words to me. this is what she said to me:
"How is your baby?"
I look at her in the most confused mean face you can imagine...
She continues, "How is your baby?"
I reply, "I don't have a baby"
Then she says, "What's your name?"
I answer.
She then is asking everyone else in the room "Who's that girl who just had a baby a couple weeks ago that looks just like her?"
People start naming off all the women who've had babies recently.
Meanwhile, this lady continues to tell me how much I look just like her but she has short blond hair.
I start to think in my head, I think I know who she's talking about. It a very short very fat annoying girl. So as soon as I say her name...
She shouts, "That's exactly it!! Yes! That's who I thought you were. You guys look so much a like, you should be her friend."
I really had no idea how to reply to such things...I just as politely as possible said "Oh". I couldn't believe she didn't drop the subject after I said I didn't have a baby, instead she pretty much told me I look like i just gave birth a week ago.
I then got away from this awful person as soon as I could. I wanted to cry so badly, but I sucked it up and stayed another 20 minutes, then called jeremy balling as I left telling him the story.
oh gosh! That was really long! Sorry! Have a great day!
Natalie - What a great update. Thanks so much. I have also been wondering how everything was going since moving in with the 'rents:)
I'm so sorry that people are retarded in their comments. Some of them had to come from PTC ward though, right?
Quick story from me too:
When I was 30 weeks along with Olivia, there was one particular man at GE (in Cincinnati) that made stupid comments all the time. He told me one day that I shouldn't be worried if I went into labor at work. He grew up deliving sheep and calves and that he could probably deliver a baby too.
Even now I feel a hairball in my throat thinking about that guy - I avoided any contact with him after that! Gross!
Best of luck with the iron thing. You really look great!
I would just like to say that I don't think my wife is huge and she DOES have a glow. I think she is very cute and bella when she is pregnant. She is beautiful and wonderful. I also think she does a nice job with this here blog. E is extremely good looking himself.
Will
i am steamed! i can't believe people say things like that! my philosophy is to just say something back to them in the sweetest voice possible, like, "wow, what an incredibly rude comment." or "you must think you are being helpful with that comment, unfortunately you are not."
keep me posted on the skin regimen. i also do not glow(i get the red mask of motherhood) and i am still "not glowing" 2 weeks after delivery. i am looking to switch my skin care regimen up.
furthermore, the first thing i noticed about the pic of everett watching tv is that your parent rearranged their tv room since last i was there.
will's picture looks really great and professional. i love the gold tie!
good luck on the last 10 weeks. hopefully they fly by and you are able to be in air conditioning as much as possible.
I agree with you about Twilight. I'm only halfway through the book but the whole first half I have been utterly confused about what is so attractive about this Edward character that Bella is willing to die for him after knowing him a couple of weeks. Obviously he's hot, but is there any real chemistry here other than the author putting in random comments about the "electricity" flowing between them? I'm really not a book snob, and I think I would have loved this book as a teenager, but I guess I'm just missing the natural character and relationship development you can pick up on yourself without having the author have to spell it out for you. Does that make sense? Oh well.
This is exactly why I cannot stand half of the women of the church, and in turn have made a conscious decision not to associate with them-- too many horror stories of the judgemental brats who are just looking for ways to show you they are better than you one way or another, simply to feed the insecurities they conjure up in their minds because they stay home all day feeling worthless! You are beautiful pregnant, don't think any different just because someone is having a bad day themselves and wants to put it off on you! Best of luck.
I dont know you, but have checked your blog from time to time. I am a really good friend of Nathan and Lindsay Roberts. My name is Vinnie (I am a girl...not a boy...people always ask)....feel free to check my blog, I wont think you are creepy, but you might think I am creepy. But the reason I decided to comment. AMEN! I agree 100% with your thoughts on what people say when you are pregnant. I hated it when people would see me and say, "You are getting SO big." " I never got that big" "Do you need to see a nutritionist" "Wow...you are so huge!!" I would go home and cry. My husband probably hated it more then ever, because he had to deal with me emotionally...haha....but just for the record. You are beautiful. And you have a beautiful family!!! (please dont think I am a creep)
Whoa Natalie!
Are you getting the comments or what!?!?!? I love it! I loved your blog and have been wanting to comment too. :] I really think you should write a book. You would be an AMAZING author and have a lot to draw from.
I'm so glad the move went so well and you had so much help. That is such a huge relief. Our last move was the only time we had help and it was incredible-wow. It looks and sounds like Everett is in heaven. I'm so glad he gets to play outside so much and has a dog. How fun. I'm worried my little nephew will soon be getting to that 2yr. old stage too. Hang in there, its gotta get better.
That is soo cool about Will's job. Nice photo too!!! I can't believe you guys get to go stay at that place! WHOA! You'll have to take photos. Its looks soo beautiful. I really hope you can enjoy it.
Ok about the whole PG thing. I feel awful too that people have to be insensitive and rude. People are unbelievably dumb. You are exactly right though about everything. My sister had a super horrible time w/ it and there was one incident where I didn't help the situation and I still feel really bad about it. Its a good thing you aren't married to a farmer either because my poor mom had to put up w/ comments like looking like a heifer, having birthing hips of a dairy cow, and a bunch other lame crazy things. If its any help too I think my mom looked the same as you and I'm afraid too that I"ll be wider than I am tall when that day comes. Oh the joy :] That's what happens when we aren't 6' 7" super models that have the room to hide a watermelon!!! But heck it sounds like you are having big babies and that's just fine and dandy. So hang in there!
I just wanted to vent too (since everyone else is) about another related pregancy thing. As one who is NOT Expecting and has a TON of pressure about having kids I am getting sick and tired of comments about being "baby hungry" and "trying" No, I don't want to eat a baby and what the heck is 'trying' supposed to mean and why in the world would you tell anyone that or would you want to know!!!! GRRRRRRRRRR..... i hate those comments.....especially when it comes from certian family memembers. So blah. My irritants aren't that bad but they do bug me and make me confused. I just don't get it. Maybe there shouldn't be any comments to women about anything baby, size, or shape!?!?!
:} hee heeeee I'll have to ask my sister what she did for her face, she had it really bad too. But it finally cleared up. Good luck! I better run. I hope you can make it through the summer too. Its been soon hot. Hang in there. September is such a wonderful, wonderful month to have a baby!
Love, chelsearae a sept. baby~*
So glad you found me! Gotta love the internet. Where are you living now?
Thanks for posting books that you've liked/disliked. I'm always up for a good read!
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